I was in New Orleans to speak at theNCSA/AVCA Spring Girls’ Talent Showcase, which was in conjunction with the Allstate Sugar Bowl JVA World Volleyball Challenge. There, I met a mother who had recruiting insights that can benefit all families, coaches and athletes, regardless of sport.
Beth Anderson was watching her 11th grade daughter Emma soar to the skies as a 6 foot outside hitter for Illini Elite. As Emma played, I asked Beth what they had been doing in the recruiting process.
“We have been taking unofficial visits since early Fall of this, her junior year,” she said. “We like to call it ‘Shopping!’”
She laughed.
“Emma has been to East Tennessee State, Southern Illinois, Morehead State and Ball State,” she said.
One of my observations was that Emma had spent a lot of work on the Evaluation Process, which is one of my main points when I deliver College Recruiting Simplified. She was on a top team with four players who had committed to Purdue, Indiana, Illinois and Northwestern. Those are Big Ten schools at the high level of D1. Some kids can get all caught up in that and be bull headed to reach that level, but Emma was looking more at mid level D1 programs.
“She wants a chance to play as a freshman,” her mother added. I liked the way that was put – a ‘chance’ to play as a freshmen. Some kids feel ‘entitled’ to play as freshmen.
“She wants a smaller atmosphere,” said her mother. “Emma doesn’t want to go to college in a big city. She wants to be a Spanish teacher one day, so it has to have Education programs.”
On her recent unofficial visit to East Tennessee State, she had spent the night with players in the dorm. She also spent significant time with the coaches. “Since it was an Unofficial Visit we had paid to get there and everything,” said Beth, “but they were still strict on things like no riding with the girls or coaches while there.”
Emma really liked her unofficial visit to East Tennessee State, which is in Johnson City, TN. Of the four she has visited, it is ten hours from her home in Illinois. The other schools are closer, but at this point ETSU seems like the right fit. She is very open geographically.
She could very well get an offer from them via email sometime this month (they wouldn’t be able to call her until July 1). ETSU is also looking at another recruit at her position, so they may offer her instead. Emma has been smart to look at a lot of schools, so she will have more options as the process plays out.
I asked Beth if her daughter ever burns out. “She can’t burn out,” she said. “She loves the sport so much. She takes a month off in July but other than that is playing.”
Parents often struggle with finding the correct role to play in the recruiting process. How much should they do? Emma has an absolute passion for her sport and playing it in college, so Mom made sure they started the recruiting process early and that they have been proactive.
“She calls me her ‘Recruiting Stalker,’” jokes Beth, laughing out loud. “Seriously, we have a great relationship in all of this. Emma wants it. We have grown closer. It has been very positive.”
Emma’s Mom says if there has been one negative it has been that Emma doesn’t follow up with schools as much as she would like her to. “I encourage her to be assertive,” says Beth. “She says, ‘Mom, if they really want me, they will come after me.’ I tell her it’s not always that way. They need to know you are interested in them too.”
So there you have the story of a talented young lady who is solid academically (3.5 GPA) who has a realistic evaluation of her abilities, knows the kind of school she wants to attend, and has been proactive in recruiting.
UPDATE: Beth ended up signing a full athletic scholarship at Southern Illinois at Edwardsville.
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I deliver College Recruiting Simplified at Twin Lakes High School. Their outstanding athletic director and boys basketball coach Kent Adams did a great job in making sure the event went really well.
I talked to Kent before the program and he shared a few insights.
“Charlie, we don’t get near as many college coaches asking us about what kind of players that we have here. I have been here 14 years, and we used to get more letters, but not as much these days. They are using different ways to find prospective athletes. Families have to reach out more.”
“One thing that I have noticed, Charlie, is that not all kids that could play at some level of college necessarily want to play college. Some of them just want to go to college and have the traditional college experience.”
(I agree. That is why it is so critical that athletes express to coaches how badly they want to play college. Just because a kid was 2nd team all conference in a sport doesn’t mean he or she is dead set on playing college. College coaches want to know how badly you want to play the sport, are you realistically capable of playing at their level, and are you sincerely interested in their school).
Kent Adams is not only A.D. and head boys basketball coach at Twin Lakes. He has been through the recruiting process as a Dad. His daughter Betsy is a sophomore at Valparaiso University on a full athletic scholarship. After scoring 1802 points in High School, she played a decent amount as a freshman and a lot more as a sophomore at Valpo. “Having a child earn a scholarship is a special thing,” said Adams.
He chuckled when he told me about the financial relief it offers to folks in today’s world. “We were with her when she was buying books her freshman year,” he said. “She got to the register and it was $780 just for books. She pulled out this yellow card the athletes were given and the lady at the checkout said “Thank you” and that was that! That’s a big relief to a parent!”
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In New Orleans, I talked with a young lady who had recently finished her NCAA college athletics experience. Rachel Lindelow had played at the D1 level for Tulane University. She had terrific insights on what it is like to be a college athlete.
“Halfway through my freshman year I was like ‘Get me out of here,’” she told me. “I found out you live and breathe sports at the D1 level. So much is mapped out. You wake up, you have class for four hours, you eat, you have sometimes 3 hours of practice. You lift a few times a week. You study until you fall asleep. At first, it was tough, but then I became crazy about it. Sure, it was demanding, but I loved it. I finished my senior season a few months ago and I miss it so much. Now I am crazy without it! I learned so many positive things. I am so good with time management now. You have to be as a college athlete. I didn’t understand time management until I played college sports. Now I write Lists all the time. It all came from the structure of being a college athlete. I am going to stay to get my MBA. When I go out into the working world I am going to be so prepared. College athletes have to work under pressure. I truly learned teamwork.”
This young lady had an absolute glow as she raved about 4 years of being a college athlete.
You get one shot at it. Go for it!
For an Evaluation of where YOU stand in the recruiting process
Charlie Adams
NCSA Athletic Network Speaker
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