I am a team leader that will pick up any player that gets down on himself.
I would never ask someone to do something that I couldn't do myself because I believe to be an adequate leader you have to be able to follow and recognize others perspective and criticism.
I believe you should work just as hard on the field as you do off the field.
Off the field, I am probably one of the nicest persons you will meet. But on the field, its about the win.