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Your Guide to Texting College Coaches

Texting College Coaches

Wondering how to text a college coach? If you’re waiting for communication from a coach, make sure to check your text messages too. College coaches can send unlimited texts to recruits starting either June 15 after an athlete’s sophomore year or September 1 of their junior year (check your sport in the NCAA recruiting calendar).

Texting college coaches is convenient – and a more casual way to interact with college coaches. But they’re still important communications with a potential future coach – so it’s important to keep in mind the best practices in how to text and respond to a college coach. 

NCAA rules on texting college coaches

The NCAA recruiting rules state that coaches can only correspond with recruits through a private means of communication. For example, coaches aren’t allowed to post on your Facebook or Twitter feed or engage with you in online discussion forums. That makes texts and emails great forms of digital communication since they are private.  

For most sports, D1 and D2 coaches can engage in digital forms of communication (like texting!) starting June 15 after your sophomore year of high school or September 1 of your junior year. 

Is it okay to text college coaches?

Even though you’ve progressed far enough in your recruiting to get to this point, you are still a recruit, and the coach is still evaluating you. When it comes to what to text a college coach, or if you’re not sure a text is appropriate, ask your current coach or parents to give a read before you send it. 

How does texting work in recruiting?

Usually, texting will start further along in the recruiting process, after the first or second email, and often after your first call with the coach. Here’s a look at the communication flow: 

How to text a college Coach

If you’re receiving text messages from college coaches, it probably means you are well-established on their recruiting list! Texting college coaches is more casual than talking on the phone or sending an email. But believe it or not, texting etiquette is a thing. 

Texting guidelines for student-athletes:  

If you’ve already established a texting relationship, continue to share regular updates via text to keep your name top of mind.  

What to say when texting college coaches

Showing your character in texts is more important than stats. The coach is going to look up your stats or ask questions if they want to know. Focus on showing the coach you are interested in their school and care about playing for them. 

When texting college coaches, start out your text with something about the coach or the coach’s team. Show the coach you’ve done your research and then say something about you. A few ways to kick off your text to a coach: 

Close out your text with something about you. Remember, you’re trying to see if you’d be a good fit for their program and that includes how well you get along with the coaches!  You can tell them about a big win, or invite them to watch you compete. Here are a few text examples: 

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Before you send that text, go through this checklist

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While you may be used to firing off texts to your friends, it pays to take a second or third look over your text to a college coach. Download our texting checklist to double check before you hit the send button. 

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Conclusion

Just like with other types of coach communications, your texts need to be professional, positive, well-thought out and show the coach that you’re interested in their program. Of course, texting should not be your first method of communicating with a coach. Remember, always begin your relationship with a college program by first calling or emailing the coaching staff to introduce yourself. Check out our guides to calling and emailing coaches to help you get started.